Delayed response online dating

When is it okay to say something about how long it takes for a guy to respond to a text or email? He sometimes takes a whole day (as in 24 hrs) to reply to emails. I’ll just sit here eagerly awaiting your response while you carve out the 38 seconds it would take to write a reply. The lapse in response time and disappearing during a conversation is done to create a sense of urgency and incite confusion and insecurity.

– Georgia, 38, NYC I’d need a little more to go on here. There’s usually an underlying message to the lack of a message. I hate it more than I hate Facebook status updates about what someone had for lunch. It’s often a power play, and it’s really, really destructive to someone’s self-esteem.

I can’t stand when people say that they’re “so busy! They’ll identify your weakness and exploit it to your advantage.

Especially if you’ve constructed a well informed argument.

I opened your e-mail on my phone while my date was in the bathroom, but then I saw that it required more than a "yes" or "no" reply, decided that was too much work, marked it as unread, and then forgot about it entirely until just now! " I think we can agree that was a stupid thing for you to do, so I don't even feel bad.

I assume you found someone else to answer your question by now, but, if not, Laura (cc'd) should be able to help. K., so it's taken me two weeks to get back to you, and I have no excuse beyond the fact that I just didn't care about your thing.

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I’ve been thinking that he’s expressing disinterest… Just like girls do when the receive a message from a man they have little to no interest in. If you do not get a reply, then clearly you then know the other person is not interested in going on another date.That’s why I hate to see you or anybody else put yourself in a vulnerable position so early in the game.Some things men and women just have to suck up for a bit until there’s a genuine comfort level.That little yellow star became a shining testament to the burden of modernity! Every day, it dared me to write a response worthy of the time I've made you wait, and every day I thought, Ugh, no.